You searched this story for a long time. "How do I buy happiness." It 's true? It can be done? Yes! Money can buy happiness with. And the story of how this is as true to say to take is not really explained.
Fortunately, the difficult situation that seems to be a moving target. One day we will say: "If only I _______ I will be happy." You can fill the void with something to your taste. But even if you succeed, what he thoughtHe is happy, the next day you have something to make you happy.
If white is the purchase of something that he wanted to have full, it should be possible to be happy making a purchase. Let's try that. Let's say your reason, he said: "If you just buy a new smartphone, as I've seen advertised on TV, I'll be happy." Let us now go through. Suppose that the particular model, you wanted to be part of the carrier has already been sold, and that youobtained a better price to buy the new phone. In this dream, let's say money was your money from your pocket that you saved enough to buy the phone. It is not so easy. We have identified our desire and we know we can do it without buying the family budget. So, we buy the phone. Shezzam! Now we are happy, right? Yes and no. You could be on track for a short period of happiness. But it will be another way to happy in a day ortwo.
Compare this example with your shopping experience. The telephone sales began with an emotional desire to be happy. In this case, the stimuli were responded around you, you say what you need to be happy. In truth, it is already a cell phone. I really do not need to replace them. What you get for your money? Not much, just a phone rather than the world you recently spent money to buy the latest innovation in the mobile display. And what was expectedget for your money? Ahh, at this point you are not sure of yourself? We've all been there and done.
An example like this with the phone shows that money is not really happy. At least not the way we usually think of being happy. We are changing the way we look at happiness. In the new version, remember how lucky you are, when you were you had the money to buy the phone and realizes that the acquisition will not upset the family budget. The sentiment can be a happyTime. The problem has now been with the phone is not expected to fulfill the promise of happiness. If it make you happy, happiness is only a couple of days. She has been chasing the wrong goal. In reality, the cost of things is important for other people or "with it" is coming to be seen less often make you happy. happiness in the long term is not usually considered something that you eat, or find turn-on.
So why not change the destinationsomething with a short life, something that has the stamina to know how strong the feeling that you can actually buy something, if you really want. If most of our balance sheet gives the same result as this phone for the purchase, we want to be really careful what we buy. While we wait for the perfect opportunity to spend our money on something you can enjoy the thought of spending the money (and power) when we are ready. In a sense, is true happiness?we know that we have the ability to pay - even if we spend. Then, when we spend, we want something that satisfies us because it meets a need or that our lives are enriched by experiences that we share with our closest friends to buy.
This is a positive side effect of spending money. We develop trust in us. If we know we can pay the bills and still spend money to be available when the time comes, we tend to be higher and go with more pep in our step. Thisattracts people who share our sense of self-esteem. Soon we realize that our friends are confident that people are free from claims of creditors.
Comparing the group of friends who constantly worry about paying their debts to the group of friends to find comfort that you have the money rather than buying the latest toys and things, the group is more likely that most luck? It 's the group that has the money to pay bills and even a small amount to show off every so often alone.This would make the group the money in your pocket and maybe a cell phone, a few years.
See? can buy happiness with money! But is not the place to spend the money that brings happiness. It is the ability to spend it when you bring happiness. And if you have to spend something you don 't bring that happiness could be short-term, you should not spend more money on something that will have long-term happiness. The lucky buyer isSpend the money, not necessarily to bring packages to the car.
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